Speak Your Fans’ Love Language – Acts of Service
Now that you know the secret of unveiling someone’s unique love language, you can start incorporating these tactics into your daily life. The next love language we’re going to tackle sounds a little more like volunteer work than an act of intimacy, but stay with us…we promise it’ll pay off!
Acts of Service
For Your Fans
Now granted, performing acts of service might be a bit trickier than Words of Affirmation, but there are still ways to incorporate it into your shows.
Take Requests!
A great way to help your fans feel that you are doing something just for them is to take requests! Maybe offer a customized vid (that you can sell on Clips on FanCentro!) — and it doesn’t have to be just one person’s request, although that’s a great option for DMs. (One more tip: fans who’ve been wanting to save unlocked content on DMs can now do exactly that with Clips on FanCentro, so check out your DM content and make sure it’s available to sell in your Clips!).
Create a poll asking fans what they’d most like to see from you, record a video and post it in your clips. The act of feeling heard will ring loud and clear for your fans, and every time they watch your vid they’re going to feel extra-loved.
Give Them Your Number
Okay, hear us out. We know (because we’re listening to you in Telegram) that the only thing guys love more than sending dick pics is getting ratings on said dick pics. And we know that can be hard (no pun intended) to do. How gracious should you be, how should you react when horrified, there are a million questions and no book of rules for rating dick pics. HOWEVER, if you feel like that’s a skill in your bag of tricks, it’s a great option to offer up.
In Your Relationship
Fortunately, incorporating acts of service into your relationship is much easier than doing it with fans. It’s also one of the easiest Love Languages to accommodate. Acts of service can mean simply doing the dishes one night, helping your partner wash the car, or even just cooking a meal.
Lighten Their Load
Partners that speak the Acts of Service language aren’t looking at the gesture, they just appreciate the meaning behind it. If they absolutely hate cleaning the bathroom, performing that task for them may be their version of getting a gorgeous bouquet of flowers.
Romantic stuff, huh?
But just because acts of service may not be the hottest love language to speak, it can definitely bump up your quality time with each other and help build a stronger foundation for your relationship.
Find the Sweet Spot
Once you begin speaking the language of acts of service it’s going to become second nature. So a big part of tapping into this love language is homework. Be observant, watch for moments when your partner asks for your help so you can anticipate those situations later on. As soon as you become fluent, so to speak, love will flow that much easier.
Check out our other Love Language posts and take a quiz to help you find yours. Next up: Receiving Gifts!
