Bossbabe Tips! Find out how to be SEX-SATIONAL with Kay from Asia!
Welcome to the second installment of FanCentro’s BOSSBABE series, where we chat with some of the top influencers on the platform about how they cultivated their success and manage their business. This series will highlight helpful tips and advice from influencers who’ve made a splash in the adult industry and have kindly shared their success stories to help others.
This week we’re talking to Kay from Asia, one of FanCentro’s Top Twenty Influencers!
Tell us your origin story! How did you get your start in the industry?
I was helping another girl, who was doing this kind of work, by editing her content, and helping her with her English for messages and posts. She got big quickly and then literally ran off with a rich guy without ever having paid me. But….I did have her cameras, lights, tripods, toys (I cleaned them!) and some lingerie. I thought about it for like 30 seconds, and I was like, “I’m in!”
What is the best advice you received as a newcomer?
To be highly active. That’s really it. There are no shortcuts. You have to put the work in.
Tell us about your day! How do you get organized?
My digital calendar is synced to all of my devices. I have folders within folders within folders on my laptop. All backed up, dated and easy to search for on the cloud and external hard drive. I trust in my system and I trust in my calendar. That trust is what keeps my brain from getting overwhelmed by it all.
What’s your favorite self-care tip?
I don’t get up to an alarm clock. One of the nice things about this work is there’s no need to wake up at a certain time. I wake up peacefully when I’m ready. And that keeps my face from looking tired. Oh, and I never wear makeup for any longer than I need to.
What motivational advice would you give to someone just starting out?
Understand that doubt = cancer. In the beginning you have every reason to doubt yourself. There are so many beautiful people at this, and some of them are so good at what they do. It can be intimidating. But they were in your shoes at one point. And chances are they were always confident that things would work out. I was confident. I think I had realistic expectations, which is also important. But I always felt like I could get what I needed out of this, and I certainly have. It really isn’t as competitive as some would have you think. If anything, there is a shortage of motivated talent. This is just the beginning for this industry.
